Monday’s & parties


Got your cuppa? I think I need a strong one cause this Monday, I just can’t seem to move!

How was your week guys? Mine was somewhat busy. My weekend especially! There was a birthday party and a fundraiser gala, which was fun until my face was like ‘imma make you regret this when you wake up!

Birthday parties are always fun. I make new friends, check out new restro and what they have to offer and the general vibe. This time we went to place turns into a lounge/club after 11. The highlight for me was def seeing this girls hairdo. Now, if you follow me on Instagram you might have seen this, if not it’s cool.

I can’t stop looking at that topknot-updo-bun. It’s like a Pinterest gone wrong, or maybe this is what is in now? Either way, it made my night and eventually they looked over at us wondering why we were all laughing so hard. #soshameless

The fundraiser was fun, it was to raise awareness for people with disabilities and living with disabilities. As my usual shameless self, all I noticed was how much of a booty the minister of employment has. Or as my med friend likes to call it: “His “booty” is because his fat messes with the usual curvature of the spine. Nerds like me call it hyperlordosis.”


Anywho, how was your week? Xx

The party spirit

It has snowed and now I want to have a Christmas Sweater party!

I want to know what’s so cool about wearing tacky sweaters, listening to cheesy holiday music and eating themed snacks…..wait, that sounds amazing cool!!?

This is going to be my first ‘grown-up’ party that I will host all on my own. So my friends are pretty excited. I just hope I can be a good hostess. Even though this party is all the way in December, I already have a pinterest board going and an Evernote notebook with all my notes aligned with guest list to menu. A bit OCD? not even, I want to be prepared for all.

I am just stumped on the activities, so if you guys have any ideas, they will be very appreciated!

One Lovely Blog Award

the internet party

Omg, this post is so overdue! I’ve been so busy with studying before that this post has just been sitting on the shelf waiting to be done. Lo and behold, I got to it! I have to say, one thing I did not expect out of blogging was being a part of the blogging community. It’s like, you guys have become my friends and no joke, I totes brag about you guys.

I like how our community is all strange and loveable like a Taylor Swift song but with the sass of Britney Spears, and the knowing smile of Oprah. #blessed

Thank you to Sian for finding my little blog lovely to nominate me for the One Lovely Blog Award! And there was also another Liebster Nomination, for which this post is also very overdue and thankful for! Gosh Thank you Tried and Glue!

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Wintery Brew

It’s snowing! Let’s catch up on our week, I’ve got my chai, what are you drinking?

Winter is in full swing here in Toronto, so of course, I would sleep in my bed forever and just snuggle into the couch watching movies, because, what? I’m going to productive? haha no #jks

My week was somewhat of an emotional roller coaster as I attempted to find a dress for my friend’s engagement. It seemed that every dress I tried on was either highlighting my gut, or my chubby arms or was just doing nothing but showing my short-chubby body. It’s very easy be critical of yourself, but it’s important to remind yourself that everyone is different. As cool as the fitted sequin dress is that has cut outs all over (why is this in fashion, like why??) there is nothing wrong with sticking to your classic style that fits your body best. After all, it’s more important to feel comfortable and happy in what your wearing, than to feel awkward and out of your element.

With my socialization and participation in social activities in full swing, I am so tempted to go to or host a Christmas/Holiday sweater party. Is November too soon to have a christmas sweater party? I just want to see what all the fun is about. I have ideas about all the Mariah Carey I’ll be playing in the background, the Christmas tree out. I’m just stumped on the activities.

In other news, I have so far been so out of motivation that I have yet to properly get to working out, organizing my room or even properly job searching. It’s like I’m on vacation mode, which, I am not. #sadface

Disney and Gender Roles

True Story Bro, Sebastian knows whats good.

I’d like to continue the conversation from the last post on Disney movies and how it represents love and the sexualization of the lead characters. I find these Buzzed videos very amusing in terms of gender roles and the idea of love.

In the 21st century, these princesses are flawed and regressive, and these princes are jerks and devoid of all the charm. What do you guys think?